FUN CONVERSATION
STARTERS FOR COUPLES.

First Date

  • Do you believe in love at first sight?

  • What is the most embarrassing phase you ever went through?

  • What is the most impressive thing you know how to do?

  • What’s worse? Starbucks getting your order wrong? Or finding a motorcycle in a parking spot you thought was empty?

  • What colour best describes your personality?

  • What are your five most important personal values?

  • Would you consider yourself an Introvert, Extrovert, Or Ambivert?

  • What’s the last adventure you went on?

  • What's your favourite nickname, and is there a story behind it?

  • Who in your life brings you the most joy?

  • Would you rather stay in or go out?

  • If you were a ghost where would you haunt and why?

  • If you’re having a bad day, would you want me to leave you alone or spend time with you and cheer you up?


In a relationship

  • If you were in charge of the playlist, what would be the next song on the list? 

  • What is something people are always surprised to learn about you?

  • What is the strangest dream you’ve ever had? 

  • Which celebrity couple do you wish would get back together? 

  • Describe your perfect weekend.

  • What’s the worst piece of advice you’ve ever been given?

  • What is your favourite type of romantic gesture?

  • What would be your perfect weekend?

  • What is the most impressive thing you know how to do?

  • What song or artist do you like but rarely admit to liking?

  • Which of your scars has the best story behind it?

  • What’s the title of the current chapter of your life?

  • Would you rather work very hard at a rewarding job or hardly have to work at a job that isn’t rewarding?

  • What are some annoying habits of other couples that irritate you the most?

  • What is the best “relationship advice” someone has ever given you?

  • What was the best moment in our relationship so far?


Engagement/Newlyweds

  • What motivates you to work hard?

  • What's your all-time favourite movie?

  • What’s the worst thing you’ve eaten out of politeness?

  • What are you absolutely determined to do?

  • What kind of a parent do you think you’d be?

  • Do you remember the first thing we said to one another?

  • What was your favourite part of the year?

  • What are the biggest differences between us?

  • Would you rather me cook you breakfast in bed or a candlelit dinner?


Married

  • What always makes you laugh, even when you’re upset? 

  • What weird conspiracy theory do you believe? 

  • What’s your go-to joke? 

  • If you had to open a door that leads anywhere, where would that be?

  • What was your biggest “why didn’t I start this sooner” moment?

  • What were you really into when you were a kid?

  • Who in your life brings you the most joy?

  • What’s your favourite way to waste time?

  • If you were a ghost where would you haunt and why?

  • Would you say that I understand what you are feeling?

  • Do you remember the first thing we said to one another?

  • Are you happy with the amount of us-time and apart-time we have?